It may seem like everyone is happily taken. The gigantic, white weddings, colorful gender reveals, and enormous, brilliant engagement rings can read like a romantic comedy that we aren’t even a supporting character in. I know people in those exact situations. Some are genuinely happy with their lives. However, plenty…

“Have you ever tried to build a bomb?” the petite, female FBI agent looked at me with a steely gaze. I glanced to make sure my next door neighbor wasn’t outside. — “I have to make sure one of the neighbors isn’t outside gossiping with one of her sisters in Urdu. I never know what they’re saying but, damn, it’s juicy,” I replied. I could tell that the coast was clear. “No, I can barely put together the planter that I pulled…

When it comes to dating, it’s always better to take a more laid back approach where your energy is more “being” than “doing”. While you should be putting yourself out there to meet people, you shouldn’t have to put forth that much effort to meet the right person. I used…

Is it morally wrong to date someone or marry them for a reason other than love? That would personally make me uncomfortable. I’m an old school romantic who wants their modern day fairtyale. I want that made in heaven marriage to someone that I can’t get enough of and who…

Most people I know- especially men- may act like they like it if a woman heavily pursues them. However, they are usually turned off. While I know of one couple where the woman marched up to her current husband and introduced herself, this is not a common occurrence. With that…

Dr. Theodore Kaczynski is a beloved contradiction. While he is a criminal for his bombings that spanned nearly two decades, he is also an enigma who basically flipped the bird at The System. Like D.B. Cooper and many other outlaws, Dr. Kaczynski stuck it to the man. “Industrial Society and…

How crazy is it that so many people give up on love? It’s funny because there are so many people that say “I don’t have time for a relationship”. Then, they whine about being single. They put off getting married and “save it for later”. If you’re not ready, I…

You became ash today I never got to say goodbye Was the courtesy of a text too much to ask for? I allowed myself to cry today To put out the flames I would give anything to take your pain away A tattoo is all I have left of you The air to my fire That was extinguished within me. Where was God? Why didn’t he protect you? Is God even to blame for the choice you made? No phoenix ever rose- Perfectly healthy young men aren’t supposed to die